How to handle an autistic child in the neighborhood?

Posted on 23. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

My cousins have a neighbor with a 6-year-old autistic son. The boy is high-functioning but difficult to communicate with, and often roams freely, running in the street and through the backyards of all the houses on the block.

Last night, in the middle of dinner, he ran up to my cousin’s 2-year-old son and pointed a toy lightsaber in his face, saying "You are evil jedi, you must die!" My cousin told this kid to go home, and the kid ran into my cousin’s playhouse in the backyard, and the two of us had to go and tell him to leave. He finally left when I went around the front of the house and shouted his name, and my cousin told him "There’s your dad, he’s calling you."

The neighbors are not receptive and simply say that their son "has problems." Meanwhile, my cousin’s kids are effectively bullied by him. The 2-year-old was so upset he couldn’t finish dinner and went inside and cried.
I ask because we’re over there a lot, and my wife and I babysit fairly often for our cousins. If it were my kid being picked on by this older kid, I’d have a firm conversation with the parents – and some very choice words if the conversation resulted in no changes.

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Child molestation still haunts me… Will I ever entirely overcome this?

Posted on 19. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

(Please try to be understanding… even online this is hard for me to do. I just really need someone to talk to about this right now, and I don’t want to tell my friends… I don’t want them to judge me based on this.)

I was molested by my older teenage neighbor (age 18 or 19) when I was between the ages of 4 and 5. He was the only teenager in the neighbohood, so my parents entrusted him with alot of things; such as keeping an eye on me when I would play outside, or babysitting me when they wanted to go out on a date. Nothing abnormal. At first he would just watch me constantly… then he got more serious. He would make me sit in his lap as he whispered "what he wanted to do" in my ear. I would cry and ask him to stop, and for a while, he would end it there. Eventually it started getting more serious, and he would always try to get me alone. He would trap me in my bedroom when my parents were out (he was babysitting) or follow me into the playhouse that me and my sisters…
used to have in the backyard and block the doors. Then he would force me to let him French kiss me, or lick me. I would cry and try to scream for help, but he would always cover my mouth, or tell me he would kill my dog if I didn’t shut up. Then he would act all nice and tell me that he loved me as he licked the tears off my face. Sometimes (before he started) I would try to ignore him, but he would always take away the toys I was playing with and throw them to the side or break them. I became so scared of him I could barely function. I stopped eating and hardly spoke to anyone, but my family didn’t seem to notice. They kept asking him to baby-sit, and he kept abusing me. The one night when he finally decided to take it all the way, I begged my parents not to go out. I screamed and cried, and they punished me for it and called me selfish. I should have just told them, but I was too scared, so I stopped fighting.
. I thought that it wouldn’t be worse than any of the other times, but it was. I will never forget that day, and I will never be the same. I wish I could say that I was able to move on, but I can’t.

Eventually, a teacher noticed my shift in behavior (a happy bubbly 5 year old to a reclusive, scared one) and asked me about it. She was the first person that I ever told. She went to my parents, and they went to the police. NOTHING happened to him. Except for the fact that his ‘mommy grounded him.’ I’m not sure whether or not there was not enough evidence to present a case, or whether my parents just decided not to press charges, but I don’t really want to ask. I’m sure you can understand.

I went to counseling, but I never felt comfortable REALLY talking about it. In fact, this is the most that I have ever opened up about it. I just feel that it still affects me more than it should. Sometimes I’m quiet or shy around people, and I don’t openly trust people as much as I should.
. Sometimes I turn down people who ask me on dates because somewhere deep down inside I feel that they only want to use me, or that they will somehow hurt me like he did. Sometimes when I am alone I will just sit there and cry as I re-live it in my mind. That’s why I am posting this now… I was just having one of those moments. (I’m actually crying right now as I write this…)

I know that I shouldn’t… but I will never stop blaming myself. I let it go on for so long… I was so stupid. If only I would have said something in the beginning it never would have gone so far. I hate myself for that. I wish that I could just stop myself from feeling so hurt and alone. It’s been 12-13 years, but the feelings never go away. His actions have changed my entire life, and any relationship that I have had/ will ever have.
Thanks to those of you who took all the time to read this. It means a lot to me that you care enough to do that. Just writing this took a lot of strength for me to do, as pathetic as that sounds. You have no idea how thoroughly disgusting it is to think about… let alone write down and share it with everyone online. I am glad that there is someone out there willing to listen.

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Is it strange that a 35 year old woman would just want to be friends with a 25 year old guy?Is she bipolar?

Posted on 17. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

On criagslist there is a woman who I have been talking to on the phone for 2 years. I’m a 25 year old white guy and she is a 35 year old white woman.

I met her in the strictly platonic section of craigslist 2 years ago.

We talk on the phone atleast once a week. She usually calls me at 2am. This 25 year old woman is unemployed and lives in her own apartment that her parents pay for at age 35. Her apartment cost 00 a month for a one bedroom.

She sleeps until 2pm or 3pm every day. Currently she babysits for side money and takes one class at a local community college to tell people she is doing something.

This woman often prefers to be alone in her apartment. She is not interested in a relationship she just wants to be friends. She has a car of her own even though she doesn’t work.

Everytime we talk on the phone we talk about our problems and help each other out.

She is depressed very often. Her parents are divorced but live in the same city as her. Her parents are unhappy that she is 35 with no job and they are unhappy that she is lazy. She called me from her cell phone once that she wanted to kill herself and drive off the freeway. I was wondering if this womanis crazy or BIpolar.

I on the otherhand have a 4 year BA degree from a university but havent wrked in 4 months due to the economy. At age 25 I’m currently living in a room inside my parents house. I wake up at 8am or 9am becuase I feel its a waste to sleep all day. But I’m a very understanding person becuase I have aspergers syndrome.

This woman doesn’t have any friends.

One night she called me at 2am and wanted to meet me in person becuase she was depressed. I ended up meeting her at Dennys at 2am and she was very very fat. But she was a nice person.

On one of our phone conversations I told her that I live in a room inside my parents house. I told her about this backyard cabin in my parents backyard that is 100 square feet. I told her that when I was a child I used this backyard cabin as a playroom. The backyard cabin has electricity,is insulated and has a plug in heater and lights. This cabin in my parents backyard has no windows at all. There is a sink inside the cabin but no toilet or shower. The inside of the walls in the cabin are painted sky blue with butterflies. The inside of the cabin door is also sky blue.

On one of my phone conversations with this woman I told her that I was thinking about sleeping in this cabin in my parents backyard some night to get some privacy. Studio apartments in my area rent out for 00 a month or more.

On the phone she said don’t move to or sleep in that cabin unless its a last ressort.

At Dennys that evening she said maybe she can come over to my parents house at 2am and she can hang out with me in the backyard cabin.

A few days later I cleaned out the backyard cabin becuase I knew she was coming over. I put some rugs on the floor. Put in some beanbag chairs.

When I met her outside at her car I was very very nervous. I walked her through my parents backyard and into the backyard playhouse/cabin. She had a backpack and was holding two starbucks cups.There is a 24 hour starbucks a mile from my parents house One for me and one for her.

The cabin/playhouse door was left open with the lights on and heater on. I let this woman walk in first becuase she had her hands full and I was behind her.

She put her bag down on the floor and the starbucks cups on a small table thats in there.

I leave the door wide open to the cabin. She walks over to the door and closes it and locks it.

She says to me:"You forgot to close the door’

She asked me:" Does your mom tuck you in and close the door when she leaves?" This was said to me in a voice that you talk to a preschooler in.

Im an independant adult and drive my own car. I felt insulted that a woman would treat me this way.

I explained to this woman that I was going to leave the door open for some fresh air.

I just left the door closed to make her happy.

While she was inside this playhouse cabin with skyblue walls and a skyblue door she starts talking to me like a toddler.
She spends about 2 hours in the cabin/playhouse with me. We were having a conversation just like we have on the phone except in person.

She said to me next time she can bring her bedroom tv and dvd player and we can watch a movie in there next time.

After her spending 2 hours inside the backyard cabin at 4am she gets up and says she has to leave becuase she is tired.

As she is leaving she starts taking to me like she is babysitting me. She said" As soon as I leave this room the lights are going to go out and its going to be nice and warm in here."

I was going to walk into my parents house and sleep in my bedroom.

She says to me"Its cold outside don’t walk accross the backyard to walk into your parents house."

I was very very nervous about her walking in my parents backyard without me watching her.

To make her happy allowed her to walk to her car through my paretns house alone at 4am.

She turned the door nob walked outside and turned the lights off and turned up the heater.

She said:"In a minute this room is going to become very very dark and nice and toasty"

On the wall I had a key hung on a pin to lock the door. In my wallet I had an additional key.

She takes the key in her hand and walks outside the door and says:"Good night sweetie"

She slams the door and I heard the key turn becuase she locked the door.

I end up falling asleep on the beanbag chairs and don’t wake up until 3pm becuase it was pitch black in there.

I open up the door and she atleast left they key under a rug outside the door.

I tried to call her and she never returned my calls. Three months later I never heard from her and she never returned my calls.

What did I do wrong?

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Playground Freedom

Posted on 13. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

My grandson being cute in the toddler playground.

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Is it strange that a 35 year old woman would just want to be friends with a 25 year old guy?Is she bipolar?

Posted on 13. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

On criagslist there is a woman who I have been talking to on the phone for 2 years. I’m a 25 year old white guy and she is a 35 year old white woman.

I met her in the strictly platonic section of craigslist 2 years ago.

We talk on the phone atleast once a week. She usually calls me at 2am. This 25 year old woman is unemployed and lives in her own apartment that her parents pay for at age 35. Her apartment cost 00 a month for a one bedroom.

She sleeps until 2pm or 3pm every day. Currently she babysits for side money and takes one class at a local community college to tell people she is doing something.

This woman often prefers to be alone in her apartment. She is not interested in a relationship she just wants to be friends. She has a car of her own even though she doesn’t work.

Everytime we talk on the phone we talk about our problems and help each other out.

She is depressed very often. Her parents are divorced but live in the same city as her. Her parents are unhappy that she is 35 with no job and they are unhappy that she is lazy. She called me from her cell phone once that she wanted to kill herself and drive off the freeway. I was wondering if this womanis crazy or BIpolar.

I on the otherhand have a 4 year BA degree from a university but havent wrked in 4 months due to the economy. At age 25 I’m currently living in a room inside my parents house. I wake up at 8am or 9am becuase I feel its a waste to sleep all day. But I’m a very understanding person becuase I have aspergers syndrome.

This woman doesn’t have any friends.

One night she called me at 2am and wanted to meet me in person becuase she was depressed. I ended up meeting her at Dennys at 2am and she was very very fat. But she was a nice person.

On one of our phone conversations I told her that I live in a room inside my parents house. I told her about this backyard cabin in my parents backyard that is 100 square feet. I told her that when I was a child I used this backyard cabin as a playroom. The backyard cabin has electricity,is insulated and has a plug in heater and lights. This cabin in my parents backyard has no windows at all. There is a sink inside the cabin but no toilet or shower. The inside of the walls in the cabin are painted sky blue with butterflies. The inside of the cabin door is also sky blue.

On one of my phone conversations with this woman I told her that I was thinking about sleeping in this cabin in my parents backyard some night to get some privacy. Studio apartments in my area rent out for 00 a month or more.

On the phone she said don’t move to or sleep in that cabin unless its a last ressort.

At Dennys that evening she said maybe she can come over to my parents house at 2am and she can hang out with me in the backyard cabin.

A few days later I cleaned out the backyard cabin becuase I knew she was coming over. I put some rugs on the floor. Put in some beanbag chairs.

When I met her outside at her car I was very very nervous. I walked her through my parents backyard and into the backyard playhouse/cabin. She had a backpack and was holding two starbucks cups.There is a 24 hour starbucks a mile from my parents house One for me and one for her.

The cabin/playhouse door was left open with the lights on and heater on. I let this woman walk in first becuase she had her hands full and I was behind her.

She put her bag down on the floor and the starbucks cups on a small table thats in there.

I leave the door wide open to the cabin. She walks over to the door and closes it and locks it.

She says to me:"You forgot to close the door’

She asked me:" Does your mom tuck you in and close the door when she leaves?" This was said to me in a voice that you talk to a preschooler in.

Im an independant adult and drive my own car. I felt insulted that a woman would treat me this way.

I explained to this woman that I was going to leave the door open for some fresh air.

I just left the door closed to make her happy.

While she was inside this playhouse cabin with skyblue walls and a skyblue door she starts talking to me like a toddler.
She spends about 2 hours in the cabin/playhouse with me. We were having a conversation just like we have on the phone except in person.

She said to me next time she can bring her bedroom tv and dvd player and we can watch a movie in there next time.

After her spending 2 hours inside the backyard cabin at 4am she gets up and says she has to leave becuase she is tired.

As she is leaving she starts taking to me like she is babysitting me. She said" As soon as I leave this room the lights are going to go out and its going to be nice and warm in here."

I was going to walk into my parents house and sleep in my bedroom.

She says to me"Its cold outside don’t walk accross the backyard to walk into your parents house."

I was very very nervous about her walking in my parents backyard without me watching her.

To make her happy allowed her to walk to her car through my paretns house alone at 4am.

She turned the door nob walked outside and turned the lights off and turned up the heater.

She said:"In a minute this room is going to become very very dark and nice and toasty"

On the wall I had a key hung on a pin to lock the door. In my wallet I had an additional key.

She takes the key in her hand and walks outside the door and says:"Good night sweetie"

She slams the door and I heard the key turn becuase she locked the door.

I end up falling asleep on the beanbag chairs and don’t wake up until 3pm becuase it was pitch black in there.

I open up the door and she atleast left they key under a rug outside the door.

I tried to call her and she never returned my calls. Three months later I never heard from her and she never returned my calls.

What did I do wrong?

This happened two years ago.

On tagged.com I recieved an alert that her birthday is today. She was last active in tagged 3 months ago.

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What did I do for this woman to not be friends with me anymore?

Posted on 09. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

On criagslist there is a woman who I have been talking to on the phone for 2 years. I’m a 25 year old white guy and she is a 35 year old white woman.

I met her in the strictly platonic section of craigslist 2 years ago.

We talk on the phone atleast once a week. She usually calls me at 2am. This 25 year old woman is unemployed and lives in her own apartment that her parents pay for at age 35. Her apartment cost 00 a month for a one bedroom.

She sleeps until 2pm or 3pm every day. Currently she babysits for side money and takes one class at a local community college to tell people she is doing something.

This woman often prefers to be alone in her apartment. She is not interested in a relationship she just wants to be friends. She has a car of her own even though she doesn’t work.

Everytime we talk on the phone we talk about our problems and help each other out.

She is depressed very often. Her parents are divorced but live in the same city as her. Her parents are unhappy that she is 35 with no job and they are unhappy that she is lazy. She called me from her cell phone once that she wanted to kill herself and drive off the freeway. I was wondering if this womanis crazy or BIpolar.

I on the otherhand have a 4 year BA degree from a university but havent wrked in 4 months due to the economy. At age 25 I’m currently living in a room inside my parents house. I wake up at 8am or 9am becuase I feel its a waste to sleep all day. But I’m a very understanding person becuase I have aspergers syndrome.

This woman doesn’t have any friends.

One night she called me at 2am and wanted to meet me in person becuase she was depressed. I ended up meeting her at Dennys at 2am and she was very very fat. But she was a nice person.

On one of our phone conversations I told her that I live in a room inside my parents house. I told her about this backyard cabin in my parents backyard that is 100 square feet. I told her that when I was a child I used this backyard cabin as a playroom. The backyard cabin has electricity,is insulated and has a plug in heater and lights. This cabin in my parents backyard has no windows at all. There is a sink inside the cabin but no toilet or shower. The inside of the walls in the cabin are painted sky blue with butterflies. The inside of the cabin door is also sky blue.

On one of my phone conversations with this woman I told her that I was thinking about sleeping in this cabin in my parents backyard some night to get some privacy. Studio apartments in my area rent out for 00 a month or more.

On the phone she said don’t move to or sleep in that cabin unless its a last ressort.

At Dennys that evening she said maybe she can come over to my parents house at 2am and she can hang out with me in the backyard cabin.

A few days later I cleaned out the backyard cabin becuase I knew she was coming over. I put some rugs on the floor. Put in some beanbag chairs.

When I met her outside at her car I was very very nervous. I walked her through my parents backyard and into the backyard playhouse/cabin. She had a backpack and was holding two starbucks cups.There is a 24 hour starbucks a mile from my parents house One for me and one for her.

The cabin/playhouse door was left open with the lights on and heater on. I let this woman walk in first becuase she had her hands full and I was behind her.

She put her bag down on the floor and the starbucks cups on a small table thats in there.

I leave the door wide open to the cabin. She walks over to the door and closes it and locks it.

She says to me:"You forgot to close the door’

She asked me:" Does your mom tuck you in and close the door when she leaves?" This was said to me in a voice that you talk to a preschooler in.

Im an independant adult and drive my own car. I felt insulted that a woman would treat me this way.

I explained to this woman that I was going to leave the door open for some fresh air.

I just left the door closed to make her happy.

While she was inside this playhouse cabin with skyblue walls and a skyblue door she starts talking to me like a toddler.
She spends about 2 hours in the cabin/playhouse with me. We were having a conversation just like we have on the phone except in person.

She said to me next time she can bring her bedroom tv and dvd player and we can watch a movie in there next time.

After her spending 2 hours inside the backyard cabin at 4am she gets up and says she has to leave becuase she is tired.

As she is leaving she starts taking to me like she is babysitting me. She said" As soon as I leave this room the lights are going to go out and its going to be nice and warm in here."

I was going to walk into my parents house and sleep in my bedroom.

She says to me"Its cold outside don’t walk accross the backyard to walk into your parents house."

I was very very nervous about her walking in my parents backyard without me watching her.

To make her happy allowed her to walk to her car through my paretns house alone at 4am.

She turned the door nob walked outside and turned the lights off and turned up the heater.

She said:"In a minute this room is going to become very very dark and nice and toasty"

On the wall I had a key hung on a pin to lock the door. In my wallet I had an additional key.

She takes the key in her hand and walks outside the door and says:"Good night sweetie"

She slams the door and I heard the key turn becuase she locked the door.

I end up falling asleep on the beanbag chairs and don’t wake up until 3pm becuase it was pitch black in there.

I open up the door and she atleast left they key under a rug outside the door.

I tried to call her and she never returned my calls. Three months later I never heard from her and she never returned my calls.

What did I do wrong?

This happened two years ago.

On tagged.com I recieved an alert that her birthday is today. She was last active in tagged 3 months ago.

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Is it strange that a 35 year old woman would just want to be friends with a 25 year old guy?Is she bipolar?

Posted on 04. Jun, 2011 by Toy Expert.

On criagslist there is a woman who I have been talking to on the phone for 2 years. I’m a 25 year old white guy and she is a 35 year old white woman.

I met her in the strictly platonic section of craigslist 2 years ago.

We talk on the phone atleast once a week. She usually calls me at 2am. This 25 year old woman is unemployed and lives in her own apartment that her parents pay for at age 35. Her apartment cost 00 a month for a one bedroom.

She sleeps until 2pm or 3pm every day. Currently she babysits for side money and takes one class at a local community college to tell people she is doing something.

This woman often prefers to be alone in her apartment. She is not interested in a relationship she just wants to be friends. She has a car of her own even though she doesn’t work.

Everytime we talk on the phone we talk about our problems and help each other out.

She is depressed very often. Her parents are divorced but live in the same city as her. Her parents are unhappy that she is 35 with no job and they are unhappy that she is lazy. She called me from her cell phone once that she wanted to kill herself and drive off the freeway. I was wondering if this womanis crazy or BIpolar.

I on the otherhand have a 4 year BA degree from a university but havent wrked in 4 months due to the economy. At age 25 I’m currently living in a room inside my parents house. I wake up at 8am or 9am becuase I feel its a waste to sleep all day. But I’m a very understanding person becuase I have aspergers syndrome.

This woman doesn’t have any friends.

One night she called me at 2am and wanted to meet me in person becuase she was depressed. I ended up meeting her at Dennys at 2am and she was very very fat. But she was a nice person.

On one of our phone conversations I told her that I live in a room inside my parents house. I told her about this backyard cabin in my parents backyard that is 100 square feet. I told her that when I was a child I used this backyard cabin as a playroom. The backyard cabin has electricity,is insulated and has a plug in heater and lights. This cabin in my parents backyard has no windows at all. There is a sink inside the cabin but no toilet or shower. The inside of the walls in the cabin are painted sky blue with butterflies. The inside of the cabin door is also sky blue.

On one of my phone conversations with this woman I told her that I was thinking about sleeping in this cabin in my parents backyard some night to get some privacy. Studio apartments in my area rent out for 00 a month or more.

On the phone she said don’t move to or sleep in that cabin unless its a last ressort.

At Dennys that evening she said maybe she can come over to my parents house at 2am and she can hang out with me in the backyard cabin.

A few days later I cleaned out the backyard cabin becuase I knew she was coming over. I put some rugs on the floor. Put in some beanbag chairs.

When I met her outside at her car I was very very nervous. I walked her through my parents backyard and into the backyard playhouse/cabin. She had a backpack and was holding two starbucks cups.There is a 24 hour starbucks a mile from my parents house One for me and one for her.

The cabin/playhouse door was left open with the lights on and heater on. I let this woman walk in first becuase she had her hands full and I was behind her.

She put her bag down on the floor and the starbucks cups on a small table thats in there.

I leave the door wide open to the cabin. She walks over to the door and closes it and locks it.

She says to me:"You forgot to close the door’

She asked me:" Does your mom tuck you in and close the door when she leaves?" This was said to me in a voice that you talk to a preschooler in.

Im an independant adult and drive my own car. I felt insulted that a woman would treat me this way.

I explained to this woman that I was going to leave the door open for some fresh air.

I just left the door closed to make her happy.

While she was inside this playhouse cabin with skyblue walls and a skyblue door she starts talking to me like a toddler.
She spends about 2 hours in the cabin/playhouse with me. We were having a conversation just like we have on the phone except in person.

She said to me next time she can bring her bedroom tv and dvd player and we can watch a movie in there next time.

After her spending 2 hours inside the backyard cabin at 4am she gets up and says she has to leave becuase she is tired.

As she is leaving she starts taking to me like she is babysitting me. She said" As soon as I leave this room the lights are going to go out and its going to be nice and warm in here."

I was going to walk into my parents house and sleep in my bedroom.

She says to me"Its cold outside don’t walk accross the backyard to walk into your parents house."

I was very very nervous about her walking in my parents backyard without me watching her.

To make her happy allowed her to walk to her car through my paretns house alone at 4am.

She turned the door nob walked outside and turned the lights off and turned up the heater.

She said:"In a minute this room is going to become very very dark and nice and toasty"

On the wall I had a key hung on a pin to lock the door. In my wallet I had an additional key.

She takes the key in her hand and walks outside the door and says:"Good night sweetie"

She slams the door and I heard the key turn becuase she locked the door.

I end up falling asleep on the beanbag chairs and don’t wake up until 3pm becuase it was pitch black in there.

I open up the door and she atleast left they key under a rug outside the door.

I tried to call her and she never returned my calls. Three months later I never heard from her and she never returned my calls.

What did I do wrong?

This happened two years ago.

On tagged.com I recieved an alert that her birthday is today. She was last active in tagged 3 months ago.

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Is it strange that a 35 year old woman would just want to be friends with a 25 year old guy?

Posted on 31. May, 2011 by Toy Expert.

On criagslist there is a woman who I have been talking to on the phone for 2 years. I’m a 25 year old white guy and she is a 35 year old white woman.

I met her in the strictly platonic section of craigslist 2 years ago.

We talk on the phone atleast once a week. She usually calls me at 2am. This 25 year old woman is unemployed and lives in her own apartment that her parents pay for at age 35. Her apartment cost 00 a month for a one bedroom.

She sleeps until 2pm or 3pm every day. Currently she babysits for side money and takes one class at a local community college to tell people she is doing something.

This woman often prefers to be alone in her apartment. She is not interested in a relationship she just wants to be friends. She has a car of her own even though she doesn’t work.

Everytime we talk on the phone we talk about our problems and help each other out.

She is depressed very often. Her parents are divorced but live in the same city as her. Her parents are unhappy that she is 35 with no job and they are unhappy that she is lazy. She called me from her cell phone once that she wanted to kill herself and drive off the freeway. I was wondering if this womanis crazy or BIpolar.

I on the otherhand have a 4 year BA degree from a university but havent wrked in 4 months due to the economy. At age 25 I’m currently living in a room inside my parents house. I wake up at 8am or 9am becuase I feel its a waste to sleep all day. But I’m a very understanding person becuase I have aspergers syndrome.

This woman doesn’t have any friends.

One night she called me at 2am and wanted to meet me in person becuase she was depressed. I ended up meeting her at Dennys at 2am and she was very very fat. But she was a nice person.

On one of our phone conversations I told her that I live in a room inside my parents house. I told her about this backyard cabin in my parents backyard that is 100 square feet. I told her that when I was a child I used this backyard cabin as a playroom. The backyard cabin has electricity,is insulated and has a plug in heater and lights. This cabin in my parents backyard has no windows at all. There is a sink inside the cabin but no toilet or shower. The inside of the walls in the cabin are painted sky blue with butterflies. The inside of the cabin door is also sky blue.

On one of my phone conversations with this woman I told her that I was thinking about sleeping in this cabin in my parents backyard some night to get some privacy. Studio apartments in my area rent out for 00 a month or more.

On the phone she said don’t move to or sleep in that cabin unless its a last ressort.

At Dennys that evening she said maybe she can come over to my parents house at 2am and she can hang out with me in the backyard cabin.

A few days later I cleaned out the backyard cabin becuase I knew she was coming over. I put some rugs on the floor. Put in some beanbag chairs.

When I met her outside at her car I was very very nervous. I walked her through my parents backyard and into the backyard playhouse/cabin. She had a backpack and was holding two starbucks cups.There is a 24 hour starbucks a mile from my parents house One for me and one for her.

The cabin/playhouse door was left open with the lights on and heater on. I let this woman walk in first becuase she had her hands full and I was behind her.

She put her bag down on the floor and the starbucks cups on a small table thats in there.

I leave the door wide open to the cabin. She walks over to the door and closes it and locks it.

She says to me:"You forgot to close the door’

She asked me:" Does your mom tuck you in and close the door when she leaves?" This was said to me in a voice that you talk to a preschooler in.

Im an independant adult and drive my own car. I felt insulted that a woman would treat me this way.

I explained to this woman that I was going to leave the door open for some fresh air.

I just left the door closed to make her happy.

While she was inside this playhouse cabin with skyblue walls and a skyblue door she starts talking to me like a toddler.
She spends about 2 hours in the cabin/playhouse with me. We were having a conversation just like we have on the phone except in person.

She said to me next time she can bring her bedroom tv and dvd player and we can watch a movie in there next time.

After her spending 2 hours inside the backyard cabin at 4am she gets up and says she has to leave becuase she is tired.

As she is leaving she starts taking to me like she is babysitting me. She said" As soon as I leave this room the lights are going to go out and its going to be nice and warm in here."

I was going to walk into my parents house and sleep in my bedroom.

She says to me"Its cold outside don’t walk accross the backyard to walk into your parents house."

I was very very nervous about her walking in my parents backyard without me watching her.

To make her happy allowed her to walk to her car through my paretns house alone at 4am.

She turned the door nob walked outside and turned the lights off and turned up the heater.

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need advice on this lil situation that happen to me today?

Posted on 27. Apr, 2011 by Toy Expert.

i dont know how to really explain myself so im gonna try to explain this as best as i can….
ok so right now my husband and i and our 32 month old daughter are living with my mother in law untill next yr on january because of money situations we have to be here for now…my mother in law takes care of hubbys brothers kids while hes at work…..so today while i was cleaning the bathroom, this lil boy which is my brother in law kid , which means is my nephew too…got to the hopuse after school…hes i think 5-6 yrs old…my two yr old and him were playing in this lil house that is covered while i was cleaning…i didnt think much , plus my child has no one else to play wioth so i let them play together since i didnt seee anything wrong untill i finished cl;eaning the bathroom, i walked to the living room to see how they were and i saw that they were underneath a blanket in the lil playhouse..when i lift up the blanket i saw to my surprise that this lil boy was on top of my lil girl she was booty naked best over and he was .on top of her….and i said what is going on in here ..i was shocked i did not notice if he was naked or not just grabbed her and lifted up her lil pants and diaper…and he ran to the house…my mother in law was in the back and went to the living room to see what was i talkinhg about , she just gave a blank look and said "why was she letting herslef do that"?!?!?! i…should i be exaggerating over this situation? ….i know he has done stuff like this…with his brother…his brother is the same way too…he will show his wee wee to my daughter..or they will hum p eachter in the bed…i caught them before…so i dont know what is going on…i just want to know what should i do..,or say…i know if i tell his parents..i’m afraid they will beat him..his father has been abusive towars them…and i think they have been molested…

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17 year old girl, job interview?

Posted on 10. Mar, 2011 by Toy Expert.

Its at a playhouse cafe and is after school.
I am great with kids and want to work in child protection one day.
What should I do/say?
I go to a catholic girls school and have a nice dressy uniform so seeings its after school is it okay to go in my uniform??
A playhouse cafe is an indoor playground where there is a cafe for parents and the kids are entertained

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